Gay cruising at the gym

In my afternoon gym visits I had a few sexy times in the steam room with guys when no one was around. And of course, lots of peeking in the locker room. Shower, put your clothes on, and mind your own business.

Now this may come off as homophobic but I’ve personally experienced some very uncomfortable advances from gay men in steam rooms in other gyms I’ve been to and have refrained from using saunas for over a year.

I live in a gay neighborhood and frequent a large commercial gym, which has plenty of gays and straights alike. Because of this, I don't see a ton of nudity in the lockers/sauna/steam rooms; it's not super cruisy. BUT where there are lots of gays, there is also inevitably some cruising.

How do these guys manage to strike up conversations at the gym in a way that's not painfully awkward? Well recently, I figured out the secret. So here's an 8-step guide to help you pick up that.